can someone tell me what “vanilla privilege” is if that’s okay because

from what i’ve heard it

sounds like a pretty real thing and therefore i don’t understand the big fuss people kick up about it not being real? but possibly i have the totally wrong end of the stick here, hm

  1. irishconfetti said: also people have trouble w/ shades of grey when it comes to privilege imo, they assume every use of the word is intended to be equally the same in weight and form. “but mono-amorous privilege != white privilege how dare you”
  2. gunugy said: i think its talking about vanilla vs. kinky sex?? beings are expected to have “normal” sex lives and being kinky is treated as being wrong, immoral, etc. i don’t quite remember the problems some beings have with the phrase rn :o
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